Everyone needs to take a deep breathe....

First of all I want to say what many have said before this is Key & Matt's wedding; a day for them to celebrate their lives with the people they care about. As Kirsten stated the support from the family members on both sides is weak and that is why the wedding party needs to be extra supportive and understanding in all cases. There are a few people that have been asked to help that are not in the wedding party, these people are all important influences in the bride and grooms lives. They were not asked to help because the wedding party was not doing their duties but because these people are equally respected and loved. Weddings are always a stressful time for the people getting married, the people involved with the wedding and the surrounding families. It is a merge of two completely different people who use to live seperate lives....No one should expect things to be perfect, no one should expect the fairy tale....In the end I believe everything will work out, and that Key & Matt will not be able to stop smiling at their pre-wedding parties and wedding day. We all need to love, support and honour their wishes; this is not a time to be pointing fingers and directing orders (unless your the bride). Enjoy the chance to make a long-lasting memory.